Are you ready to embark upon a journey? Are you prepared for the uncertainty that awaits?
It is rare for me to compose an essay on just one topic, but I’m excited to share my thoughts about embracing life’s uncertainties. I understand how daunting it can be to confront them; however, it requires courage and tenacity on one’s part!
My father was a renowned doctor who labored tirelessly throughout his career. He devoted over twenty-five years of his life in order to provide for his family. Furthermore, he endured countless sleepless nights; after all – what did he have if not his health?
As fate would have it…one day within a routine checkup at the hospital he encountered a peculiar case. An X-ray revealed that my father had been afflicted with a rare condition known as multiple sclerosis – an incurable disease which causes inflammation along the central nervous system – which left him paralyzed from the neck down!
Step outside of your comfort zone
For many, the unfamiliar forms an essential component of any journey. While it can be unnerving to venture into new territory or undertake something that is especially challenging – those who persistently take risks tend to reap greater rewards than those who simply remain within the bounds of the familiar.
In his book, “Becoming”, author Brené Brown highlights how taking risks can open us up to a multifaceted perspective on life. She states that: “Excellence is subjective and requires courage.” This doesn’t imply that we should disregard our boundaries; rather, we must actively seek out opportunities for growth while embracing them with both hands!
Forget about “happily ever after”
If you’re consistently chasing after love and affection, you’re bound to meet with failure. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you should throw in the towel – it merely means that these expectations must be abandoned for a time so as to gain some perspective.
If all your energies are devoted toward finding an ideal mate who wants nothing more from you than companionship and affection, why not spend time getting to know yourself and those around you before rushing into marriage? This could provide an excellent opportunity for self-discovery along with enriching life experience that could lead towards greater contentment; most importantly towards having all our dreams come true!
Let go of perfection
Naysayers can be detrimental to the success of any endeavor. Whether they’re suggesting that you devote more time or energy towards a project, or dissecting your latest achievements; these voices can hinder your progress and stunt growth along the way!
The notion of striving for perfection has plagued humanity since its inception – from our artistic endeavours to scientific discoveries. It is this over-concerned attitude which has impeded an abundance of innovations throughout history.
While it’s true that achieving perfection might not be attainable in all endeavors or pursuits, we must accede to recognizing some degree of flawliness within ourselves if we are ever going to overcome adversity and achieve success.
Avoid comparing yourself to others
We are all unique individuals, with our own set of strengths and weaknesses. Rather than attempting to adjust your silhouette to resemble that of another’s success, consider the benefit of focusing on what makes you distinct from those around you.
It can be tempting to compare yourself with others in order to gauge how one’s life is progressing; however, this can prove cumbersome if an individual remains unaware of where they stand relative to anyone else. Ultimately, comparing oneself to others solely for purposes of comparison may lead to self-flagellation over perceived shortcomings – leading many in this predicament even further away from achieving their aspirations!
Be open to trying new things
Have you ever experienced that moment when a new endeavor seems promising – only to later discover it was an unfulfilling experience? This is common, especially with those who are not prone towards trying new things.
Just like in one’s endeavor, achieving success requires action–even though being open and receptive may initially appear unappealing. In order to reap the benefits of any undertaking or venture, it is imperative that you be willing to try new things out.
It could be as simple as experimenting with your diet or devoting an occasional day each week for an activity you’ve always wanted to try. For example, if fitness is your passion then why not start a walking routine?
Love yourself and accept your flaws
I already mentioned that I am a perfectionist. This can lead to me being extremely hard on myself when I don’t meet my standards. However, there are benefits to embracing your imperfections!
By keeping an open mind and accepting that we’re all a work in progress – regardless of our race, gender, sexual orientation, socio-economic status – it can be much easier to embrace change and start anew with each day. We are empowered by embracing our weaknesses rather than running away from them!
Practice gratitude — for what’s already happened
It is easy to dwell on the past, but it is just as beneficial to revel in what you have achieved, and stay mindful of the many blessings life has bestowed upon us. By recognizing our successes and acknowledging the blessings we have received thus far, we are likely to experience greater contentment when faced with future adversities.
I find that resolving to be grateful for my journey thus far often allows me to remain grounded during times of uncertainty. It provides a sense of security – one that could potentially come in handy should an unforeseen occurrence arise!
For what you have now and for what you hope for in the future
Only recently did I realize that maintaining an optimistic outlook can be quite freeing. There are no guarantees in life – not even the ones you create yourself! Nevertheless, there is something intrinsically rewarding when we devote ourselves to crafting a brighter future. It feels like free will yet also acts as a bulwark protecting us from uncertainty; thus it provides vital reassurance that our journeys’ successful completion is certain! This sense of security gives me the confidence necessary to steer my ship safely through any sea and experience serenity along the way.
If you are well off today, meditate on what you have accomplished already. Then bask in the satisfaction of all that remains ahead of you. Don’t forget about yesterday either; relish its pleasures and savor its flavors. If this sounds too much like a simple Pollyanna-esque pep talk, consider the benefits: such reflections can provide the motivation needed for anyone to keep moving forward with enthusiasm towards an uncertain future!
Trust your instincts
I’ve often professed my preference for instinct over reason, yet I’ve never been able to fully articulate why; I just feel more comfortable going with what feels right.
In reality, this is a very straightforward decision: you do not have an alternative option – staying where you are will only bring about limited fulfillment.
If you begin in earnest on the journey of life, it’s illogical to remain in your comfort zone. The truth is that there are countless paths to take–some tentative, some daring and others bold–and by choosing one we don’t know our destination; therefore we must be open-minded and adventurous when making any decisions at all!
Conclusion
Through the experience of loss, we are granted with an opportunity to reflect on the future and reevaluate our intentions. Through this process, we become more cognizant of what’s truly important; we open ourselves up to possibilities and extend kindnesses towards those around us.
When you find yourself in a moment of uncertainty, allow yourself to be present and acknowledge what is happening. Reflect on your thoughts; observe how you’re feeling; then consider: “What will be?”
